
William and Rebecca (Stretch) Graves
| William Graves and his wife Becky
Stretch will always be special to me, though I never even came close to
meeting them. Back in the late 1990’s, when my interest in genealogy
became re-kindled, it was with them that I began my research.
Bill Graves was born 20 Nov 1820 in Chatham county, North Carolina to
John and Elizabeth (Freeman) Graves, the fourth of twelve children. The
following year, his family removed to Ross county, Ohio, where many of
his father’s siblings had already gone. There he married Ann Ratcliff,
daughter of Simon and Rachel (Dixon) Ratcliff in 1842, on his 22nd
birthday.
In 1844, Bill’s brothers Thomas and James had sojourned to Stark county,
Illinois to see if the grass was greener there. It was, they
determined, and sent for their parents and siblings. As John and
Elizabeth prepared for the trip by |
covered wagon, John took ill and died. Elizabeth painfully continued
the preparations and continued westward. Everyone went except Bill and
Ann – Bill owned about 210 acres of land in Liberty township, nearby
that of his father-in-law, Simon Ratcliff. They continued on in Ross
county with their children Simon, b. 1844; Martha Madaline, b. 1846; and
Saran Ann, b. 1855. Their third child, James Newton, lived less than a
month and was buried at Friends Church Cemetery near Londonderry, Ohio.
Six months after the birth of her youngest child, Ann died, and was
buried near her son. Six months after her death, Bill married Rebecca
Stretch, daughter of Thomas and Rebecca (Rains) Stretch, who had helped
out with the children after Ann’s death. About 1864, Bill, Becky, and
their family set out to join the rest of Bill’s family in Illinois.
Simon and “Madaline,” as she was called, went with their father, and
Sarah Ann (“Annie”) stayed behind to be raised by her maternal
grandparents. In addition to these two children, Bill and Becky’s
family consisted of Cynthia (4) and Thomas (2), They purchased a farm
in Peoria county, Illinois, just across the border from Stark county,
and there they prospered. Their twin sons, Oscar and Austin, were born
in 1870. Bill eventually had purchased enough land to give each of his
children, including the girls, an 80-acre farm.
William apparently retired at a fairly early age, as the younger
children didn’t remember him working. According to his granddaughter,
Myrtis, William never hurried at anything, and was an easy going man.
He “made it a point to be out at the gate when he saw a wagon coming,
which in those days of slow driving was not hard to do,” she said. He
always went to bed before dark, never smoked, drank, or kept late hours,
and lived a long life to show for it. He was also interested in his
family’s history, and kept many of the birth and death dates in his
Bible. Though his people had been Quakers, Bill never professed any
certain religion himself, and saw no need to “pay a preacher to tell
people how to live.” This perturbed his wife to no end, having been
brought up in a church-going home, and the daughter of a choir-master.
He did, however, insist that his children attend Sunday school.
 | Eventually
their children grew up and left home – Simon sold his farm to younger
brother Oscar and went to Nebraska; Madaline married Monroe Cox of Stark
county; Annie married Monroe’s brother Charles Cox, also of Stark
county; Cynthia married David Evans of Peoria County; Thomas also sold
his farm to his brother Oscar and moved to South Dakota; and Austin did
likewise, settling in Minnesota. Oscar’s descendants continued on the
farm, with his grandson still owning it as of at least 2008, making it
eligible for designation as a “Centennial Farm”".” |

Rebecca suffered a fall, breaking her thigh bone, and died a month
later, the official cause of death being tuberculosis. She passed away
on 26 May, 1905 at the home of her daughter Cynthia. Bill then lived
with his son Austin at Stringtown, just across the border in Stark
county, where he died on 16 Jun 1908. Both Bill and Becky are buried at
Sheets Cemetery in Stark county.